You know it. You’ve felt it. That sick, nagging feeling in the pit of your stomach, you are absolutely certain your partner is cheating on you. But instincts will only get you so far. You want proof.
No. You NEED proof; actual, tangible proof. And even though it will devastate you, the only thing worse is not knowing. When it comes down to it, you want to figure out how to catch a cheater.
Thanks to technology, it has never been easier to cheat on your spouse. That being said, it’s also that much easier to catch them in the act. Here are some effective ways to spy on your spouse to get the evidence you need to bust a cheater.
10 Ways to Spy on a Cheating Spouse
10.Confront him or her
At this point, you have all the evidence you need to prove that your husband is cheating; now it’s time to confront them. You just need to be prepared for what they have to say.
9. Use a spyware app
Like keyloggers, but for a phone. If nothing else has worked, or you simply want complete access to your partner’s phone, all you need to do is install one (like Spy Tracker) on their device and you will instantly have access to everything they do.
A monitoring app is an ultimate way to bust a cheater once and for all. Though keep in mind that there are possible legal ramifications if they decide to take action.
This software can be installed in a computer and the cheating person using it would never know it’s running in the background.
These programs can record whatever you want, see the passwords they use, the emails they send, the pages they visit, even record them using the computer. Kind of creepy but you do what you have to do.
7.Track their movements
Find My Phone only works if it’s on their phone. With an app like Spy Phone or a super-small GPS device that can be fixed to the underside of your unfaithful spouse’s car,
you can see where they go, then catch them at that sleazy motel (or worse, that luxury resort you two never went to) with their pants around their ankles. You’ll be busting the affair in real time.
6. Use hidden cameras or voice recorders
Place a spycam or recording device in the room where your partner escapes to when they want alone time. If he’s playing video games or watching his favorite show, cool.
If they’re on the phone, chatting with someone online or doing any other funny business behind your back that could lead to them being unfaithful, you’ll know soon enough.
5.Create a fake profile
You can log on to those websites that promote cheating spouses (you know the ones) and keep a look out for your spouse. Or you can start a little smaller, and create a Facebook or Instagram profile and see if he or she bites.
You can take it a step further by sending him or her an invite and getting friendly/flirty and see what the response is like. If they’re interested in meeting up or hooking up, they’re on the hook.
4. Check the Cloud
It’s one thing to spot a liar, it’s another to suspect that they’ve been receiving messages or pictures from another love interest.
Just because your partner’s deleted photos from his or her computer doesn’t mean that they still don’t exist somewhere, waiting for you to uncover. If your spouse is hiding pics and selfies and other unfaithful memories, it’ll be in his or her Cloud storage.
3. Check bank statements
If you have a joint account, it’s that much easier. Just look for transactions you don’t recognize particularly for obvious things like lingerie, jewelry, hotel or restaurant bills. Anything out of the ordinary that could be a sign of infidelity.
Modern software like Mint not only manages your money but you might just be glancing at his or her phone when a monthly expense notification appears. Make a copy or take a screenshot of anything suspect and keep it hidden in a safe place as you continue your investigation in the hopes of catching that cheater red-handed.
2. Check their trash folder
One should respect another person’s privacy, of course, but if you suspect your girlfriend or boyfriend is cheating or your wife or husband is having an affair and you are ready to see it for yourself, then try going into his or her email trash folder.
If they’re actively emailing with someone else, they may have forgotten to permanently delete any conversations. While you’re at it, you might also want to check their computer’s recycle bin for any incriminating photos. If you find anything, then you can kick this human trash to the curb.
1.check text messages and other messaging apps
If your partner’s been super-protective of his or her phone, and you suspect they’re being unfaithful, try and sneak a peek if you can. Don’t forget to always check for aliases because of “Michelle” maybe someone else entirely.
While no software can show you how to find out the true identity of a caller, there are apps (like Spyzie or Call Log Monitor) that can track their contact list and call logs to help tell you exactly how many times a day this “work” calls. Once you have that, make a note of any numbers you find and contact the mystery caller yourself to bust a cheater once and for all.